Outbid or Negotiate? Here's How to Determine Your Strategy

  • Author: Arnoud Bakhuizen
  • June 2, 2026
  • 2 min. read time

First, assess the market; then set the asking price

Whether it’s wise to make a higher offer depends entirely on the market segment and the neighborhood. In the mid-range segment of the Statenkwartier, demand consistently outstrips supply, while larger properties in the outlying municipalities actually leave room for negotiation. Therefore, don’t look at the citywide average—look at the specific street.

A good indicator is the ratio between the asking price and the final sale price of comparable homes over the past six months. These figures are available upon request and reveal exactly how much of a markup is included in an asking price.

When It Makes Sense to Outbid

For a home that’s been aggressively marketed with a fixed registration date and ten or more viewings in a single day, negotiation isn’t an option. It’s a one-time opportunity, and what matters most is whether your offer exceeds the appraised value and how you’ll finance that difference.

Keep in mind what making an overbid actually means. You’ll have to pay the amount above the appraised value out of your own pocket, because the bank will only finance up to the value of the home. So, making an overbid of 50,000 euros requires 50,000 euros in savings, on top of the buyer’s costs.

When Negotiating Pays Off

If a home has been on the market for more than two months, if the asking price has already been lowered once, or if there are visible defects, then there is room to negotiate. The same opportunity arises when a seller is under time pressure because they have already purchased another home.

Negotiating is more than just naming a price. A well-reasoned offer that references the replacement cost of the roof or the property’s energy efficiency rating comes across as more credible than a round number. We always include that rationale in writing with the offer; this makes it easier for the selling agent to justify it internally.

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Set your boundaries and communicate clearly

Set out in writing in advance the maximum amount you’re willing to pay and the conditions you won’t compromise on. Otherwise, in the heat of a bidding war, that limit can slip unnoticed. We’ll go over those terms before the first offer is sent out.

Next, be clear in your communication. An offer with a brief, straightforward explanation and a realistic response deadline works better than one with a lot of caveats. Sellers are more likely to choose the party that exudes calm and certainty than the highest bidder with the most conditions.